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Wedding Anniversary...trigger or not

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:15 PM on Thursday, August 7th, 2025

It was a trigger for 5 years. The 6th year was our 49th, and we started to plan our 50th.

The 1st post-day anniversary was 9 months after d-day. Our 2nd and 3rd were pretty rough; 4th was OK; 5th was good. Since then, we've celebrated the day.

BS feelings about one's anniversary vary a lot over the long term.

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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