BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 11:21 AM on Sunday, March 1st, 2015
Updated to here.
And to matthesax, that was very kind of you to try to make Lowlow feel better. 
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
LuvsMeLuvsMeNot ( member #44963) posted at 6:14 PM on Monday, March 2nd, 2015
February 22nd here
BW (ME) 62 FWH 62 M-36 YRS, D-Day #1 2/11/12-FWH SAY ONLY EA TT BS From FWH For 3.5 YRS! D-Day #2 12/3/15-FWH SAYS ALWAYS A PA SAME OW! OW/EXGF 61 Nasty White Trailer TRASH Who Dumped WS 42 Yrs Ago
globetrotter ( member #46685) posted at 1:58 PM on Saturday, March 7th, 2015
D-Day: January 17, 2015
Me: 41
WH: 40
DS: 3
Friends for 27 years, married for 14
Blindsided by WH's confession of workplace affair while living abroad. DS and I are starting anew back home while WH continues to live in outer space.
Didact ( member #42867) posted at 3:00 AM on Wednesday, March 11th, 2015
September 20 for me. Will be 51 this next time.
No matter how painful, life either adapts or it dies.
BH (Me) 49
WW 48
Married 1985
D-Day Mar 19, 2014
1 year passionate EA/PA, ended by me on d-day.
Attempting to R
Jomarion ( member #43659) posted at 4:53 AM on Wednesday, March 11th, 2015
Mine is March 16. I will be 55! Holy Mackeral!
me:BGF, 54, American immigrant. one son. me and my ex get along great, the most amicable split imaginable!
him:WBF,43, Polish immigrant
together since 2006,
DDay:October28,2009,after his 3 teen kids push him to cheat with OW.
5 betrayed me
sandrac ( member #45208) posted at 4:45 AM on Saturday, March 14th, 2015
My birthday is today. 13 March.
Rampage0409 ( member #47087) posted at 4:11 PM on Sunday, March 15th, 2015
February 20 
Me: 33
WH: 36
OW1: Ho Worker
OW2: Another Ho Worker
DDay: 3/5/15
DDay 2: 2/14/17
Filed for D March 8, 2017
Divorced!
Married: 10years - Together: 17years
"Who ever said money can't buy happiness has never paid for a divorce!"
SadieMae ( member #42986) posted at 7:34 PM on Wednesday, March 18th, 2015
Me: BW D-day 3/9/2014
TT until 6/2016
TT again Fall 2020
Yay! A new D-Day on 11/8/2023 WTAF
crushedinpa ( member #46787) posted at 2:37 AM on Saturday, March 21st, 2015
Me 47: BS
Him 47: WS
M 22 yrs with 1 DD (age 17) and 13 year old twin DS
D-Day 1/28/2015 (1.5 mos. affair) EA/some PA (his TT story)
In R (I think)
turtlehead ( new member #45845) posted at 2:45 AM on Wednesday, March 25th, 2015
May 1 I'll be 37, my kids call me old and I believe them.
Riskybusiness ( member #43475) posted at 12:29 AM on Friday, March 27th, 2015
Me-42
Engaged 5/2017
Him-no longer matters
Married 22 years
Two DD-adults. DS-18, DD-14
DIVORCED
Rejoice in hope, persevere in tribulation, be devoted to prayer. Romans 12:12
mozi ( member #47041) posted at 12:55 AM on Monday, March 30th, 2015
Tatika80 ( member #45923) posted at 1:49 AM on Thursday, April 16th, 2015
Me~ BS 32 2014, now 40. Him~WS 35 2014, now 43.
Separated officially for 18 months my decision, together for 23 years, constantly tries to break no contact. 3 boys~12,9,2 now 19,16,9.
D-day~3rd Nov 14, ONS (so he says) with COW no exact date a
MrsZ ( new member #47595) posted at 11:10 PM on Sunday, April 19th, 2015
My birthday is August 1, I will be 33 this year 
downtownblues ( new member #45881) posted at 1:55 AM on Thursday, April 23rd, 2015
July 13th for me, not so sure that it is lucky though! Thanks
BlueIris ( member #47551) posted at 10:46 AM on Monday, April 27th, 2015
November 9
Dreading this year more than ever; will be a HUGE trigger day :(
BW | Dday 2-20-2015 + TT for several weeks
"The truth will set you free but first it will piss you off."
StrongHeart ( member #45092) posted at 11:19 PM on Monday, April 27th, 2015
April 3! This year was 30, woohoo!
BS: 32; XWH: 34; DS: 3
DDay: 3/8/2014; D: 8/31/2015
"There is little growing in comfort and little comfort in growing"-unknown
"Don't take your emotional temperature in the ass of a psychopath."-unknown
n1028 ( new member #47355) posted at 5:53 PM on Friday, May 1st, 2015
July 9th
Me: B-GF
Him:W-EXBF
DDay- March 27, 2015
"Strangers become friends. Friends become lovers. Lovers become strangers. Strangers become friends once more, and over and over."
BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 1:09 AM on Monday, May 4th, 2015
Updated to here
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
Reflective ( member #46262) posted at 10:05 PM on Tuesday, May 5th, 2015
May 5th...Oh, that ominous tug between remembrance of your start at life and thoughts of downplaying the date for different reasons- mainly due to aging:)
Whther other people are around to help you celebrate or not, loving yourself means you have your own "unique" situation..you have your own life's history that only you can uniquely relate to. And for whatever reason(s)people either do or do not join you in that celebration that special "you", take the time to be kind and loving to yourself. You deserve the same outpouring of love that you have given to others -even when no one else is around. Celebrate your heart and how good it has been to so many others. Celebrate your humanity and be proud of your contribution to so many others'lives and the happiness and joy of those unselfish gestures. You don't realize just how much you've done. Yes- you have done so and I am here to tell you that :)
Happy Birthday!
Humans have the capacity to treat others with kindness, respect and love. When we stop practicing that basic thinking, we become open to actions that may tear another's heart to shreds.
