Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 1:26 AM on Monday, October 13th, 2025
Just thinking about you. Hope you're doing okay.
Married 2005
D-Day April, 2015
Divorced May, 2022
"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button." -Brene Brown
tushnurse (original poster member #21101) posted at 10:27 PM on Monday, October 13th, 2025
Well the fun never stops. No diagnosable cause yet for the pain and hand/arm numbness. But the CT found a fairly large thyroid nodule that needs to be worked up. So having ultrasounds for the breast/arm pain this week and thyroid next week. Had infusion of Zometa last week and knocked me on my arse for 2 full days.
Spouses brother also was diagnosed with colon mass that may need surgery to remove the GI that scoped him wasn't brave enough to try via scope. So calling upon my old TushNurse skills to help direct him in next steps.
Good news is my mom has stabilized and brain is better.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 12:20 AM on Tuesday, October 14th, 2025
Big hugs. That is a lot to deal with. Remember to give yourself grace because it’s always easier said than done.
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.