low tide (original poster member #86539) posted at 12:53 AM on Monday, November 3rd, 2025
Has anyone come up with a way to stop the obsessive thoughts and rumination?
It's every day, every hour, for over 25 years since I found out." Intimacy" is marked by visions of him with her. My sleep is interrupted with daily nightmares—begging for honesty and transparency about what happened—reality. For the past 2+ weeks, anorgasmia for the first time in my life.
Nothing is working to stop the pain. I'm sorry for the repetitive complaining, but I'm at a loss, and I believe that unless you've experienced the pain of infidelity, you don't understand.