WhoRYouNOW ( new member #84995) posted at 4:52 AM on Thursday, October 10th, 2024
I am so jealous of a couple of your considering you get to believe God dealt with your WW’s APs justly and sent them straight to Hell;).
Me- BH 49- WW/SAHM 46- 23Y M 2 actually good years
4 Amazing Kids- 22M, 19M, 16F and 13F
Multiple DDays and infidelities 9 yr LTA with sons travel Lacrosse Coach and STD, multiple EA’s and PA’s
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 11:45 PM on Thursday, October 10th, 2024
I've thought about this frequently over the years. Particularly since I was in the same place with her once during the LTA.
While odds are very slim now I often think of what would happen.
While hitting the gas is awful tempting - she's not worth it.
What I'd actually do is walk away with my head held high, looking fabulous while leaving a trail of glitter in my wake.
Karma would be her choking on it.
Face it - at the end of the day, I get to CHAOS and she's stuck being LTAP.
I highly recommend the high road. The climb is hard, but the view is spectacular!
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
goingtomakeit ( member #11778) posted at 11:33 AM on Friday, October 11th, 2024
Funny one liners I’ve seen over the years
For BW
How did I taste on his dick?
For either
They told you they have herpies right?
For me, he is so irrelevant now. Probably "you are a real chump. You tossed aside a 25 year plus marriage with a woman who truly loved you, for a 6 month fling with a woman who today cringes at the very thought of you."
Me: BS (34 at d-day)Her: WS (35 at d-day)D-Day: 02/03/99Kids: 2 boys (5 & 3 at d-day)Married 9 years at d-day
Brittn ( member #84766) posted at 3:54 AM on Wednesday, October 16th, 2024
Man, what a thought. I've def seen my wife's AP and just acted like I didn't know/ nothing happened. Can't imagine why I behaved that way, but I wasn't sure of her infidelity back then. Now that she has confessed, I'd love to see him again. Would be direct with him, tell him that I know and my disappointment in them both. I'm sure that would do nothing, but would be better than playing the clueless betrayed husband as I did before.. Can't think of any amazing one liners...
Anna123 ( member #70908) posted at 8:01 PM on Wednesday, October 16th, 2024
Has not happened but often thought I would probably just ignore her. Another part of me would like to say an emphatic THANK YOU though. If it weren't her, I would have wasted more of my life with him until someone else came along.
heartbrokeninaz ( member #40779) posted at 3:57 AM on Friday, October 18th, 2024
I would probably say "Hi Whorenado". "How many marriages have you ruined lately"? But it's been a long time ago 🤣 Not that I have thought about it ever.
[This message edited by heartbrokeninaz at 4:05 AM, Friday, October 18th]
BW 51(me)WH 51DDay 1 07/31/13 ONS with whorenado DDay 2 05/09/14 texts to another woman (not returned)Dday 3 06 15/18 texting to meetup with a mutual friend not reciprocated. I live a real life fairy tale.
DawGxl ( new member #31050) posted at 7:19 PM on Sunday, November 3rd, 2024
I hope to never run into him.
I will go to jail.
I’m not a violent person. But I just don’t know. I’ve hated this man for so long. I think I would explode.. and I’d wind up in jail.
Me: BH: 44.
Her: WS: 40.
Together: 24 years total. Married: 15 years
D Day: 1/18/11. Kids: 20, 16, 14, 12
I am desperate for help.
