heartbrokeninaz (original poster member #40779) posted at 4:39 AM on Thursday, August 29th, 2024
So my husband has to travel for work a lot lately. No he cant find another job in his profession, it is very specialized and very few do it. He is traveling for the next 2 months. My son and I are going to see him for fall break. He has been great the last 6 years since I caught him texting a mutual friend who blew him off. My issue is he took 2 viagra pills with him, which he does not know I knew about. I feel like he took them for when I visit. He is older and has very low testoterone. He does need help. But I keep thinking what if he took them for something else? Its driving me crazy. What do I do? Wait and see if he has them when I am there or just jump to conclusions?
[This message edited by heartbrokeninaz at 4:40 AM, Thursday, August 29th]
BW 50(me)WH 50DDay 1 07/31/13 ONS with whorenado DDay 2 05/09/14 texts to another woman (not returned)Dday 3 06 15/18 texting to meetup with a mutual friend not reciprocated. I live a real life fairy tale.
KyleReese ( new member #61732) posted at 3:55 PM on Thursday, August 29th, 2024
Red flag, but not a smoking gun by any means. Could be harmless. Still, im sure this must be a trigger for you. Im sorry.
I would absolutely make an effort to count them when you meet up. If you cant find them at that point in time, i would choose to either inquire at that time or request a recount upon his return. If you have sex, you might want to playfully ask if he had one.
This is weird to say, but if you speak up too soon, you risk blowing your cover. The point at which you inquire needs to leave no room for "it was for you" if thats not true.
Best wishes
