Twitchy,
Your FWW was the clear leader in your relationship, and look what happened, sir.
Karmahasnomenu
Passport bro, lol. Nice try, but ways off. There are still some good women left here. Not many, but they do exist. Now, if you think relationships in the US are not in a bad spot, that's on you.
Nothing wrong with being against high divorce rates, low marriage rates, rampant infidelity, hook up culture, propping up annoying masculine women and weak feminized men, transformers. Nothing at all.
HellFire,
I'm sorry to hear that you needed to protect yourself from another man. Unfortunately, it seems to be a regular occurrence. I'm glad you're able to defend yourself. Most women don't carry, and don't stand much of a chance in a fight against most men. It's just biology.
If you and your husband hear a bump in the night, and then he sends you to check it out, how would make you feel? I try to operate on probabilities and not possibilities.
Which is why I said that it should be on the man to protect his family (wife, daughter, mother, sister) or even a random woman in trouble. Nothing wrong with that, unless you also think patriarchy is gross. Or am I just being hateful of women,
as emergent8 said "I was not entitled to trot out tired misogynistic attacks". Not sure which attacks but I don't think she's clever enough to elaborate. Just another delusional feminist.
Ozzy,
My story: I had a long term girlfriend who wanted to act single (going out with her single and slutty friends, posting inappropriate photos on social media, advertising herself to other men, and more) so I made her single. Now, few years later, I started my own family with a great gal and doing well, while my ex has been in and out of rehab, and doesn't exactly have her life together. She's still trying to get in touch with me, for reasons unknown to me. Before I blocked and removed her from my life, she alternated between begging me for a second chance and blaming me for getting ran through. I guess for her, hook up culture wasn't all it's cracked up to be. I didn't and still don't give a damn.
Now while the responses to my posts have been hilarious, the pattern that I'm seeing is that triggered people are either cheaters, women who have been cheated on in the past (who turned bitter and possibly misandrists) and weak men (simps or guys who stayed married to
their cheaters, who are often too cowardly to enforce any real boundaries). I almost feel sorry for you.
Nothing I posted here was super generalized, even though the world operates on generalities. I never said a woman who was cheated on should let her cheater lead her, or for her to be subservient to him. Never said any of that. Quite the opposite, cheating is abuse.
If he cheats on you or has a history of cheating prior to you, that guy is probably not the right guy. Leave and (if you're already married) take him for everything he has, and pick a better guy next time. Put more time in vetting.
I never said the man is always the CEO of a company or anything like that. Big shots, such as Elon Musk, probably have hundreds if not thousands of advisors but he's still the one who pulls the plug. That's why he is where he is. Not some nameless people on his board. Same with Putin, Trump, etc.
All I said is if a man is the provider and protector in a relationship, he needs to have authority over those he protects and provides for. If your relationship is 50/50, and your husband/boyfriend doesn't protect you, this doesn't pertain to you.
Women who don't need men for anything and only want them, congrats. From what I can tell, people behave better and work harder when they need something as opposed to only want it. It's a free country, stay single or be poly, strong and independent or whatever you're into.
I don't mind disagreeing with people when it comes to views on relationships, everyone is free to choose their own path, but what I have found interesting is that I was the only one called out by the mod, and had my account
suspended by a cheater even though the retarded radical feminist language, such as "mansplained", "big brained male ideas", "What’s next, asking me if I’m on my period for this response?" was used by other posters. No PM for them. LOL. But like the song by Blue County says, that’s cool.
I don't expect to be allowed to post here again, you know dumbass cheaters are also hypocrites. I wish you all the best. Especially you, Ozzy. Best of luck with your cheating wife, you're gonna need it, sir.
