Wise words from HouseOfPlane…
Especially with your WW’s current attitude:
"I know!!! You dont have to repeat the same thing over and over,Im sorry"!!! Let it go!!!
"Let it Go"
Wow, your WW is so detached from reality, from her actions, from the enormous consequences and your pain. Zero empathy.
You currently don’t have anything to work with.
Sho could just be compartmentalizing to protect herself from the profound realization of the enormity of what she’s done. A very dysfunctional, escapist way of dealing with problems and is typical wayward mentality that probably contributed to her cheating in the first place.
She needs to pull herself out of this wayward mindset, proactively, and get herself into IC, if there’s going to be any chance of reconciliation.
As of now, you have nothing to work with, you’re still stuck in infidelity, she’s still mentally betraying you, and as HouseOfPlane said above, you should start paving your way, even if with baby steps, a path out of infidelity.
This is not a sustainable situation. If your WW isn’t going to take the initiative to fix herself and save the marriage, then you need to take the initiative and save yourself. You don’t want to just survive infidelity, you want to survive and thrive.
[This message edited by RealityBlows at 5:56 PM, Tuesday, March 19th]