Topic is Sleeping.
SaddestDad (original poster member #69800) posted at 3:58 PM on Tuesday, August 15th, 2023
Wife gave birth a few weeks back. It's a boy! R is going well. I still get dark occasionally, especially during A season but for the most part all is well.
Life is a wheel. Sooner or later everything you'd left behind comes around again. For good or ill, it comes around again.
For what profit is to a man if he gains the world but loses his own soul?
BH 32
WW 34 Change4thebetter
Working hard
emergent8 ( Guide #58189) posted at 5:50 PM on Tuesday, August 15th, 2023
Congratulations SaddestDad! How wonderful.
Me: BS. Him: WS.
D-Day: Feb 2017 (8 m PA with married COW).
Happily reconciled.
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 7:17 PM on Tuesday, August 15th, 2023
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 7:25 PM on Tuesday, August 15th, 2023
Blessings to the family!!
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 10 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 9:27 PM on Tuesday, August 15th, 2023
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 9:32 PM on Wednesday, August 16th, 2023
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
jb3199 ( member #27673) posted at 2:39 AM on Thursday, August 17th, 2023
A big thumbs up if I could find the damn icon!!
BH-50s
WW-50s
2 boys
Married over 30yrs.
All work and no play has just cost me my wife--Gary PuckettD-Day(s): EnoughAccepting that I can/may end this marriage 7/2/14
Tav3n ( member #83401) posted at 1:34 PM on Thursday, August 17th, 2023
Thats awesome, in a similar situation as you where my son is coming in January! Thank you for the hope :)
SacredSoul33 ( member #83038) posted at 3:16 PM on Thursday, August 17th, 2023
Congratulations! 
Remove the "I want you to like me" sticker from your forehead and place it on the mirror, where it belongs. ~ Susan Jeffers
Your nervous system will always choose a familiar hell over an unfamiliar heaven.
DaddyDom ( member #56960) posted at 6:23 PM on Thursday, August 17th, 2023
Me: WS
BS: ISurvivedSoFar
D-Day Nov '16
Status: Reconciling
"I am floored by the amount of grace and love she has shown me in choosing to stay and fight for our marriage. I took everything from her, and yet she chose to forgive me."
HUM1021 ( member #6222) posted at 1:34 AM on Wednesday, August 23rd, 2023
Me: BS 34
Her: WS 33
M 5 years
dday with 1st OM 4/30/04 EA/PA
dday with 2nd OM 12/11/04 EA/PA
on the reconciliation rollercoaster
Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 3:02 PM on Wednesday, August 23rd, 2023
CONGRATULATIONS !!
A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)
I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!
From respect comes great love...sassylee
Lostwings ( member #79902) posted at 9:04 AM on Thursday, August 24th, 2023
Awesome !! 👍👍. Congrats !!
I thought it was love at the end of the rainbow , but a banshee came and almost destroyed my pot of gold . In R.
Trdd ( member #65989) posted at 1:40 PM on Sunday, August 27th, 2023
Nexther ( new member #83430) posted at 4:59 PM on Friday, September 1st, 2023
Serious question: Why would you have a baby with a woman who treated you that way? Don’t get me wrong, I wish you all the best.
If you could please explain to me how you thought it was safe to do so. Thank you!
Topic is Sleeping.
