Topic is Sleeping.
zebra25 (original poster member #29431) posted at 1:51 PM on Friday, February 24th, 2023
Has anyone heard from Dragn? I haven't seen her post lately and she missed SPF last week. I hope everything is ok and she is just busy living life.
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
MIgander ( member #71285) posted at 5:03 PM on Friday, February 24th, 2023
I hope she's ok too and checks in soon.
WW/BW Dday July 2019. BH/WH- multiple EA's. Denial ain't just a river in Egypt.
HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 6:30 PM on Friday, February 24th, 2023
I talked to her. She’s living life. Could use prayers and good thoughts as always. She appreciates your concern.
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
Tanner ( Guide #72235) posted at 8:12 PM on Friday, February 24th, 2023
I’m glad to know, I was also wondering
Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R BH M 32 years
zebra25 (original poster member #29431) posted at 8:38 PM on Friday, February 24th, 2023
Thank you!! Glad to hear that.
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
Jeaniegirl ( member #6370) posted at 9:40 PM on Friday, February 24th, 2023
"Because I deserve better"
PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 9:54 PM on Friday, February 24th, 2023
HFSSC,
Thanks for telling us. I have been watching for her.
[This message edited by PricklePatch at 3:34 PM, Friday, March 3rd]
BraveSirRobin ( member #69242) posted at 4:58 PM on Saturday, February 25th, 2023
Thanks for letting us know, HFSSC. I was wondering, too.
Too_Trusting ( member #99) posted at 2:59 PM on Tuesday, February 28th, 2023
I'm glad you talked with her, HFSSC. We miss her, and I'll continue to post SPF so she doesn't have to worry about that. Hugs for Dragn.
"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies
Dorothy123 ( member #53116) posted at 3:49 PM on Friday, March 3rd, 2023
thanks for letting us know.
"I’ll get you my pretty, and your little dog too!" Wicked Witch of the West.
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 4:48 AM on Thursday, March 16th, 2023
HFSSC…
Any further news re Dragn?
If you speak with her again, please tell her she is in our thoughts and prayers.
Thx.
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 1:13 PM on Wednesday, March 22nd, 2023
Thinking of you,Dragn, and of course your little Dragns and furry/feathered Dragns too! ((((Hugs)))) Miss you! 🥹
Me-58 FWH-60 Married 40 years 9/2/2023 grown daughters-40&36.14yo GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); 12yo GD & 7yo GD(DD36). D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant
Jeaniegirl ( member #6370) posted at 7:52 AM on Thursday, March 23rd, 2023
I was in the produce section today, buying tomatoes. I remarked to the produce manager how the little paper stickers on ALL the tomatoes really annoy me -- and said it must be a chore to put stickers on EVERY piece of produce. She said ..."Actually .... those paper stickers are edible."
I said no way, I am not a GOAT. 
And then of course I thought of Dragn with her goat stories and realized how much those animal stories are MISSED.
"Because I deserve better"
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 4:05 AM on Sunday, May 7th, 2023
Hi everyone. I'm so sorry. It's been an age. I wanted to check in...things went spiraling downhill for me. I spent months just laying in bed. Depression took hold. I can't say it's better. I am in IC. I am finally staying out of bed. I even shower. It's just been bad. Wh went from being just a wayward to a full on abuser. I pray for the means to D him but it's always something that comes up to block that progress. So I'm just doing my best to survive.
On the up side the little dragons are doing ok.
I hope everyone is doing ok. I miss all of you.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 5:49 AM on Sunday, May 7th, 2023
Dragn- glad you hopped on. You have been missed.
Please do every possible thing to get away from your abusive WH. I know how horrible depression is- and I am glad you have reached out to IC for help. But I am sure he is part of your depression.
And I am sorry you are going through this. Sending positive mojo your way.
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 6:33 AM on Sunday, May 7th, 2023
SOOOOOO glad to "see" you here!
Been missing you. So sorry to hear the WH hasn’t chosen to be a better person.
But I’m sure the little ones doing well is a comfort. They are survivors like their mama.
Take good care of yourself.
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
Jeaniegirl ( member #6370) posted at 9:00 AM on Sunday, May 7th, 2023
Dragn, thinking of you and want you to know just how much you are missed. A LOT!
"Because I deserve better"
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:15 PM on Sunday, May 7th, 2023
I'm so sorry, Dragn. Do what you need to do.
(((DragnHeart)))
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 7:55 PM on Sunday, May 7th, 2023
Thanks for checking in, Dragn. Add me to the list of those thinking about you.
♥ prayers for you and the littles.
Failure is success if we learn from it.
78monte ( member #72572) posted at 8:46 PM on Sunday, May 7th, 2023
I'm so sorry things aren't going well. I hope things change for you.
Take care Dragn.
Topic is Sleeping.
