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 shewp (original poster new member #82644) posted at 2:36 AM on Saturday, January 7th, 2023

Guys Ive been NC for 19 days and tonight that no good cheating MF called me at 9pm, just last night he was shacked up with ow. Now Youre calling me Friday night at 9pm. Here is the fun part you guys, you want to know what I did. Nothing. Not a F****** thing. Ignored.

Nothing feels better than treating them as if they dont exist.

posts: 22   ·   registered: Dec. 29th, 2022   ·   location: New York
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Charity411 ( member #41033) posted at 2:44 AM on Saturday, January 7th, 2023

You Go Girl!!!!

posts: 1732   ·   registered: Oct. 18th, 2013   ·   location: Illinois
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fareast ( Moderator #61555) posted at 2:46 AM on Saturday, January 7th, 2023

No contact equals no new hurts. Your anger is spot on when you see how he operates. You are still early on your journey. Take care of you. Good luck.

Never bother with things in your rearview mirror. Your best days are on the road in front of you.

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The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 4:02 AM on Saturday, January 7th, 2023

Good for you.

Don’t fall for his "I only want you when it’s convenient for me" mentality.

Block his # so he cannot get through. Permanently.

Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 11 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.

posts: 14227   ·   registered: May. 19th, 2017
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Tanner ( Guide #72235) posted at 4:13 AM on Saturday, January 7th, 2023

Awesome!!! Nothing hurts the little ego like NC. Keep it up

Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R BH M 32 years

posts: 3602   ·   registered: Dec. 5th, 2019   ·   location: Texas DFW
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Kb82 ( member #70826) posted at 4:42 AM on Saturday, January 7th, 2023

Good job! Stay strong.

posts: 203   ·   registered: Jun. 22nd, 2019   ·   location: TN
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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 6:05 AM on Saturday, January 7th, 2023

💪💪💪

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

posts: 6215   ·   registered: Sep. 10th, 2016   ·   location: Northern CA
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Helena67 ( member #80506) posted at 8:23 AM on Saturday, January 7th, 2023

That’s the way to do it! Stay strong!

BS (me) 56 years. Divorced!!!

posts: 129   ·   registered: Aug. 10th, 2022   ·   location: The Netherlands
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BreakingBad ( member #75779) posted at 1:35 PM on Saturday, January 7th, 2023

Not answering, not being available--that makes people wonder.

Why aren't they picking up?
What are they doing?
What are they thinking?
Who are they with?

Good. Let them be uncomfortable. Let them squirm. Let them know they aren't controlling your moves in any way. Let them know that they can't dictate the communication schedule.

Be at peace yourself.
Good for you!!!

"...lately it's not hurtin' like it did before. Maybe I am learning how to love me more."[Credit to Sam Smith]

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