Topic is Sleeping.
Tanner ( Guide #72235) posted at 6:29 PM on Monday, September 5th, 2022
Stay the course, the only way to it through it. You will thank yourself years from now. Don’t even focus on another relationship, take care of yourself first.
Now one thing to keep in mind, they sometimes try to circle back especially when Prince Charming becomes regular guy. Shut that down and close that door.
Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R BH M 32 years
Brew3x ( member #72052) posted at 7:02 PM on Monday, September 5th, 2022
When I first came to SI I received a lot of good advice in JFO but I wasn’t in a place to handle it.
I’m three years out now and often regret not listening. R is very difficult and I find myself wondering Daily if it’s worth it. Most days I say it’s not.
Solid advice if your unmarried is to take care of yourself, move on and find someone that values you and can be faithful.
Moving on in my opinion will be less painful in the long run.
annb ( member #22386) posted at 8:18 PM on Monday, September 5th, 2022
You can continue to come here for support. Someone is always here to lend an ear or help with advice.
You WILL survive this, one day you will realize you dodged a huge bullet. You found out who she really is before marriage or children.
Hang in there, lean on family and friends. Exercise. Eat healthy. By all means meet with your doctor if you need help with temporary medications to help you cope.
Find a good IC who can guide you through the process of healing.
Whatever you do, please stay away from alcohol and drugs.
LegsWideShut ( member #80302) posted at 4:19 PM on Tuesday, September 6th, 2022
I'm so sorry you have to go through this, but honestly it is better to find out now than it would be later. The hurt will go, and one day you'll wake up and realize how much better off you are and you go out and meet someone who WILL love you the way you should be.
It doesn't feel like it now but it will.
Topic is Sleeping.
