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Thirteen Years Sobriety

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 looking forward (original poster member #25238) posted at 6:03 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2022

Together 56 years, Married 51 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)

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DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 6:07 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2022

That's a wonderful post and you look amazing!!!

Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.

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number4 ( member #62204) posted at 6:37 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2022

Congratulations!!

Me: BWHim: WHMarried - 30+ yearsTwo adult daughters1st affair: 2005-20072nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017Many assessments/polygraph: no sex addictionStatus: R

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annb ( member #22386) posted at 7:13 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2022

Congratulations! smile

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EllieKMAS ( member #68900) posted at 7:32 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2022

I will always love hearing about people's sober bdays - congratulations!! 13 Years is AMAZING!!

"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger

"The love that you lost isn't worth what it cost and in time you'll be glad that it's gone." – Linkin Park

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wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 7:37 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2022

Congratulations!

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 2:29 PM on Thursday, April 28th, 2022

A favorite post every year! Congratulations and you look stunning!

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

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little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 3:44 PM on Thursday, April 28th, 2022

I love seeing this post every year! Congrats! ♥

Failure is success if we learn from it.

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Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 5:08 PM on Thursday, April 28th, 2022

That's wonderful. I am so happy for you!

Me-BS-65 in May<BR />HIM-SAFWH-68<BR />I just wanted a normal life.<BR />Normal trauma would have been appreciated.

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:25 PM on Thursday, April 28th, 2022

I love seeing this annual post, too. Thanks for sharing, and I wish you many more years of sobriety (and good health otherwise).

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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Minnesota ( member #50615) posted at 1:27 AM on Friday, April 29th, 2022

Cheering wildly for you in Minnesota! (the state and the person!) :-)

Me: BS Upper 40's
Her: XWW younger 30's
Married Sept. 2010
DDay Thanksgiving 2015
Dday2- Jan28ish, 2016 -new affair
One child (Big Mister) born in 2012
Divorced Sept. 2, 2016

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Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 3:15 AM on Friday, April 29th, 2022

CONGRATULATIONS grin !!!

A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)

I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!

From respect comes great love...sassylee

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 2:50 PM on Saturday, April 30th, 2022

CongratS!!!!
Did you not get to the beach thos year?
You look aaaahhhmazing darling! Be proud.

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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Cooley2here ( member #62939) posted at 4:58 PM on Saturday, April 30th, 2022

😀👍👍👍👍👍

When things go wrong, don’t go with them. Elvis

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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 1:14 AM on Sunday, May 1st, 2022

I also love seeing this every year….You are amazing!

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

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devasted30 ( member #39439) posted at 5:31 AM on Sunday, May 1st, 2022

Congratulations looking forward!!!

And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!

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Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 11:24 PM on Saturday, May 7th, 2022

Congratulations 🎉👏
I look forward to seeing this post again next year !

"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!

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