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cancuncrushed (original poster member #28156) posted at 3:10 PM on Wednesday, December 1st, 2021
An update on Npd ex and alimony.
Ex had stopped paying alimony. His excuse was him needing a new address. It was provided numerous times. Still no alimony.
Out of the blue. No further communication, after me sending two letters providing an address. 3 months late. He deposited the total amount.
No explanation
I am glad. We did not go to court. I waited him out to avoid court costs.
In the end. I believe it was harassment on his part. Just to stir things up. For as long as he could. Without real trouble. An opportunity
I’m glad his plans didn’t go too far this time.
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 1:42 AM on Thursday, December 2nd, 2021
What a controlling a$$. You called it though.
I was watching a short Dr. Phil YouTube post on NPD. He said that when he was younger, he tried to "fix" them and said he couldn't. It's above his pay grade. LOL. While people can change, NPD doesn't because they feel like there's nothing wrong with them. The problem is the rest of us.
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
cancuncrushed (original poster member #28156) posted at 1:30 AM on Monday, December 6th, 2021
It took me a long path to figure out ex was Npd. It started with an Affair. I was stuck in that for a very long time. He played games w me.
His favorite thing is to do something low and get any reaction then punish me to no end. I don’t fall for it. Since his brain damage, it’s extreme. But it also means he’s sloppy. Not near as sly as he used to be.
Topic is Sleeping.
