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25000th Post Party for sisoon!

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 Party Monkey (original poster moderator #30) posted at 6:03 PM on Friday, February 19th, 2021


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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 7:00 PM on Friday, February 19th, 2021

So much kindness and wisdom! Thank you!

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

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WalkinOnEggshelz ( Administrator #29447) posted at 12:02 AM on Saturday, February 20th, 2021

Congrats!

If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.

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outofsorts ( member #70701) posted at 4:02 AM on Saturday, February 20th, 2021

Thanks for all the good advice sisoon!

Me(BW): 40WH: 40 Married 7 years, together 20.
Dday 2/22/19 Reconciling

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lieshurt ( Administrator #14003) posted at 1:30 PM on Tuesday, February 23rd, 2021

Congratulations!

No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.

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Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 5:50 PM on Tuesday, February 23rd, 2021

25,000 posts?!?!?!?!?!

I think he deserves more than a party! We need a fiesta! A grand gala! A national holiday!

Thanks, brother, for all you've done here and all the lives you've impacted and helped to improve.

ETA: okay, maybe not a national holiday, but still...

[This message edited by Unhinged at 11:51 AM, February 23rd (Tuesday)]

Married 2005
D-Day April, 2015
Divorced May, 2022

"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button." -Brene Brown

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:52 PM on Tuesday, February 23rd, 2021

Lots of time on my hands, and recovering from infidelity is interesting, and SI is a safe place to share one's thoughts.

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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BraveSirRobin ( member #69242) posted at 12:16 AM on Saturday, February 27th, 2021

Thank you, sisoon!

WW/BW

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DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 2:28 PM on Saturday, February 27th, 2021

Oh man i habe my work cut out for me lol. But im catchibg up

Congratulations all of your wisdom is so very much appreciated.

Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.

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Bigger ( Attaché #8354) posted at 1:16 AM on Tuesday, March 2nd, 2021

One day we will have a beer. Congrats!

"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus

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thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 12:38 AM on Wednesday, March 3rd, 2021

Thanks, Sisoon, for being a wise, kind, compassionate voice when and where people need it most. You are an asset to SI.

Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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foreverlabeled ( member #52070) posted at 1:51 PM on Friday, March 5th, 2021

Thanks for all you do sisoon!

That's alot of wisdom shared

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