Topic is Sleeping.
workingonmyself (original poster member #49740) posted at 2:55 AM on Thursday, October 15th, 2015
Has anyone read them or tried the ideas?
WorkInProg83 ( member #50112) posted at 7:48 PM on Friday, November 6th, 2015
Curious about this myself.
Me (BS) - 32
Husband (WH) - 33
Son - 3yrs old
Married 9yrs - together 11
Divorced - 5/11/16
Moondancer ( member #50364) posted at 3:34 AM on Tuesday, November 17th, 2015
I just picked this up from the library. Read it today cover to cover. I am ready to start implementing the techniques but I am curious too if anyone has had any success with it. I am really unsure of pulling back so far. What if my BH starts thinking I do not want to reconcile anymore. I have been telling him I love him and that does seem to annoy him, so I can understand the point she makes about not saying it.
WW me 34
BH 35
2 year off and on EA leading to PA
DDay 10/28/15
3 beautiful innocent girls 5,3,3
Married in 2005, but together since HS
Working hard on becoming the wife he deserves, striving to heal him so we can eventually R.
Skynet ( member #51604) posted at 8:05 PM on Thursday, February 4th, 2016
Started reading it. Stopped about 90 pages in when I realized I could not focus on its messages until I was able to process the EA wife had with guy #1 for 4 years and deal with all the crap with the added (simultaneous) 1.5 year PA with guy #2! My IC really thinks highly of it FWIW. Maybe I'll pick it back up again in the near future.
"An affair is a dagger in your heart, that is never removed." - me
"Devastatingly betrayed" - confused615
Topic is Sleeping.
