Everything is tainted by the affair…how do I get past this?
H had online relationships with a couple women thru a cheaters app. Then one of those online relationships became an in-person one, which led to a year-long affair. 46 days ago my life blew up when H disclosed everything. We’re doing CC and trying to put our relationship back together, but everything feels so tainted now that I know he went to some of the same places, did some of the same things that he did with me. He gave her massages and foot rubs and made special meals for her, which I thought were special things he did just for me. I can’t stop thinking about those things. How can I move past this?
1 comment posted: Wednesday, August 19th, 2026
