No avoiding former AP
It's been about a week since I discovered my H was having an EA with a married friend of ours. It looks like it went on for about 2 weeks with a lot of texting and meeting up at the pool with kids. Nothing physical happened but she was pushing for it and he agreed that he wanted to.
H and I are communicating, he's being open and is remorseful, so I feel like we can get through this. My concern is that we can't avoid the friend. They were our closest church friends. Our kids are in the same small youth group and it means a lot to them. Our kids went to prom together this year (as friends). Our kids are in marching band together. She could easily be my kid's teacher next year. Everything says no contact. How do we move forward?
28 comments posted: Thursday, August 24th, 2023