Input Please
6 years ago my H went to a golf tournament, and a bar afterward. Where he met someone and stayed overnight in a hotel with her.
I found out, was devastated, years of pain, flashbacks and therapy. I am now finally comfortable with him going out of town to golf. But he started going back to the bar afterwards. He said its been long enough. I am devastated. It is bringing back every memory of that night. I said a restaurant is fine, but he said he will be going back to the bar. He doesn’t understand why this is an issue for me. Believe me, I have explained it. He keeps saying it’s ridiculous. I do not want this to happen but I can’t stop him. Any advice?
13 comments posted: Tuesday, January 9th, 2024