Newest Member: ConstantlyConfused

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Updated 22/12/18 Me 55 Him 58 going on 15 3kids 28yrs together with usual ups and downs but nothing like this. 5 businesses and lots of property between us. Difficult!!

Years later and everything is collapsing

After 8 years I didn't think I'd be posting here again. There have been some good times but things seem to be unravelling again. This time, it could be that I'm pushing H away by not being the lovey dovey wife he wants. Sex is the big problem. He wants more and I get turned off by his constant insinuations. Maybe I just really can't get over everything that he has done. Not just to me but to his children too. My current health problems are not helping as I am constantly tired and going through lots of tests. I'm now 60 and H is 63 but he still acts like a moody teenager when he doesn't get his own way. He is in a mood now and won't talk.....says we'll talk after the holidays and decide what to do! Honestly, if he wants to leave, he can go. But I'm not the one who is leaving my home after all the hard work I've put into to it AND trying to forgive him and make this work.

3 comments posted: Wednesday, December 6th, 2023

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