ktez (original poster member #46888) posted at 8:52 AM on Sunday, November 24th, 2024
10 years past DDay. husband has still blocked OW on Facebook however I was looking up someone on his Facebook the other day (I don’t have my own account) and his recent searches came up with the OWs new husband and he had also searched for OWs brother. I went down the rabbit hole and started going through their profiles then. I haven’t said anything to WH as I know he will accuse me of being coercive and controlling like he does when I question anything he does or his motives. But it’s annoying me and I want to know why. Any advice appreciated.
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 9:10 AM on Sunday, November 24th, 2024
It could be nothing (simple curiosity) or it could be more.
Looking up her brother - my guess is he’s trying to find out about OW. What does she look like now or what is she doing etc.
What stands out to me is the fact that you cannot talk to him or bring up his highly inappropriate behavior.
He’s certainly being shady.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 11 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
