Ascendant ( member #38303) posted at 3:16 AM on Friday, August 22nd, 2014
He has to be scared into action, and I'm tired of being the village monster.
Great quote from Jrazz in a thread by TiredGirl.
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 3:35 AM on Friday, August 22nd, 2014
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 6:36 AM on Saturday, August 23rd, 2014
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 2:58 AM on Thursday, August 28th, 2014
BtraydWife taking the words out of my mouth on a thread in General about, um... a WH's morning "parts" decoration.
You said it all non chalant like coffee, newspaper, penis jewels, watch the news. And me and my wh are like WHAT???????
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
lostandhopless ( member #41568) posted at 4:51 AM on Saturday, September 6th, 2014
Changemaker telling about his WW's begging in general.
Why didn't she ask me if I wanted to watch if she didn't think it would hurt me?
[This message edited by lostandhopless at 10:52 PM, September 5th (Friday)]
Be careful who you trust. Even your shadow will abandon you when it's dark.....
Divorced 6/13/14
StillGoing ( member #28571) posted at 10:03 PM on Monday, September 8th, 2014
respect is freely given, disrespect is earned.
Not.the.big.easy in an R thread discussing codependency and abuse. Never heard that before, great way of looking at it.
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 1:09 PM on Thursday, September 11th, 2014
clralb, helping out in jfo, describing the effects of shock upon the sweet-natured:
I could never hurt anything either. If I find a spider or a bug, I'll throw them outside, with the exception of flies and mosquitoes. I kill those assholes.
Just.
oldtimer97 ( member #2365) posted at 6:14 AM on Friday, September 12th, 2014
In General, Changemaker's answer to:
What was the biggest clue you got
My STBXWW had gotten a quite lazy with her grooming rituals. It looked like she had a poodle in her lap when she was naked.
“When someone shows you who they are believe them; the first time.”
― Maya Angelou
To save a marriage, you must be willing to lose the marriage.
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 4:00 PM on Sunday, September 21st, 2014
tbkjcn says:
BTW, If you're going to fuck another guy's wife, don't pick a guy who works for a phone company.
(He knows everything lmao!)
oldtimer97 ( member #2365) posted at 11:42 PM on Tuesday, September 23rd, 2014
Chinadoll30:
General/Topic: I would never have an A, but I do look at people now
Yes. I also meet men and think, "oh, you're a ticking cheater". I can label them a mile away. Unless I'm married to them, apparently.
“When someone shows you who they are believe them; the first time.”
― Maya Angelou
To save a marriage, you must be willing to lose the marriage.
GreatRoleModel ( member #36809) posted at 4:19 AM on Wednesday, October 1st, 2014
From Pass's sister in the D/S forum regarding the Princess
I know you're not divorcing that bitch just as a favour to me, but it sometimes feels that way. So thank you.
BS (me)
XNPDWS
It takes a village to deal with the village idiot!
“If we couldn't laugh we would all go insane.”
― Robert Frost
HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 5:34 PM on Thursday, October 2nd, 2014
CAUTION: Feelings are like kids...you don't want them driving your car but you can't lock them in the trunk either.
Truth from blakesteele in Recon, "I Don't Want to Break Up My Family" thread.
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
I think I can ( member #17756) posted at 2:07 AM on Thursday, October 9th, 2014
sal1995 on breaking stuff in anger after DDay
So yeah, I broke some small and relatively inexpensive shit. The remote and keyless were innocent victims, but that cell phone had it coming.
I'm not the winner, I'm the prize.
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 1:52 PM on Tuesday, October 14th, 2014
From the menz thread. JJCT's theory on walking/running away from a toxic relationship:
It's far better to get shrapnel in your ass than in your face.
Sal1995 ( member #39099) posted at 9:48 PM on Tuesday, October 14th, 2014
It's far better to get shrapnel in your ass than in your face.
Damn that's good. JJ's the man.
Lola2kids ( member #32789) posted at 2:24 PM on Thursday, October 16th, 2014
You don't just need to NC, you need to go nuclear with it. Bolt your shields in place. Top them with razor wire, dig a moat around them, and fill it with honey badgers.
From NIK in the D/S forum.
The best description of hardcore NC I have ever read.
BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 2:08 AM on Wednesday, October 29th, 2014
heckydoodle! Thanks guys, so humbled to be in here! Lemme tell ya MOS (MadeofScars) just said this:
Show her how inconsequential she is to your happiness by silence.
Bam! I mean BAM!
[This message edited by jjct at 6:08 AM, October 29th (Wednesday)]
MadeOfScars ( member #42231) posted at 4:18 PM on Wednesday, October 29th, 2014
Wow, thanks! Awesome to be here, really.
JJ - You are ALWAYS quotable 
"Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don’t." - Steve Maraboli
Cally60 ( member #23437) posted at 7:49 AM on Monday, November 3rd, 2014
Jpapageorge's wonderful response to LearningtoRun's crisis of confidence, when she saw ex and OW's Halloween decorations and remembered that ex had always wanted her to do more to decorate the house for Halloween. Did her ex "trade up"?
I don't give a knick-knack/paddywhack/give the dog a bone/pile of partially digested facial quality bathroom tissue fresh from the source if their happy house draws the attention of Good Morning America, if she makes Helen of Troy look like Milton Berle or if she is the one who finds a cure for the common cold and gives it away for free- she had an affair with a married man. Period. End of discussion. He did not trade up, he f***ed up. No amount of decorating to the 9's is ever going to conceal the fact that he is a loser and she is the wifetress of a loser.(I bet they didn't even give out full sized candy bars.)
[This message edited by Cally60 at 1:52 AM, November 3rd (Monday)]
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 9:44 PM on Monday, November 10th, 2014
^^^This is a gem. Best quote ever!
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
