EasyDoesIt ( member #29514) posted at 12:14 AM on Thursday, November 18th, 2010
Anything less than full disclosure and total transparency is pure bullshit. WARNING! No emotional pollution allowed.
toby ( member #10337) posted at 3:58 AM on Tuesday, November 23rd, 2010
Dagny07 ( member #16928) posted at 4:09 PM on Wednesday, November 24th, 2010
Me:BW Him: FWH E/A
M: 30 years, together 37 : both guilty of PAs 20+ years ago
CDay#1 Oct 06 (false); DDay#2 Oct 07 (truth from OW's BH)
R: Tenaciously optimistic
SuspiciousWife ( member #18108) posted at 2:37 AM on Sunday, November 28th, 2010
Me - BW, 44
Him - FWH, 44
OW - former co-worker
3 great kids
DDay - April 25, 2008 - mostly EA with one make-out session
socold ( member #17400) posted at 4:32 PM on Saturday, December 4th, 2010
(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010
socold ( member #17400) posted at 11:04 PM on Tuesday, December 7th, 2010
(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010
socold ( member #17400) posted at 11:50 PM on Friday, December 10th, 2010
(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010
UKgirl ( member #17062) posted at 5:16 PM on Sunday, December 12th, 2010
Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boysHaving an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom
EasyDoesIt ( member #29514) posted at 3:47 AM on Monday, December 13th, 2010
Anything less than full disclosure and total transparency is pure bullshit. WARNING! No emotional pollution allowed.
isadora ( member #29130) posted at 7:12 PM on Monday, December 20th, 2010
Me: BW Him: who cares
Divorced: 4/2015
2 DDs and 2DSs
Who knows how many affairs at this point
Multiple D-Days
I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.
tammyjean100 ( member #28159) posted at 4:08 AM on Thursday, December 23rd, 2010
You can't overcome anything without facing it. Betty Ford
september7 ( member #29929) posted at 2:03 PM on Saturday, December 25th, 2010
Bump. Thank you for this positive topic. I feel better already.
D-Day September 7, 2010 NC ended December 22, 2010 and I kicked him OUT! WH dumps OW July 2, 2011 and wants to R! Now he has been living with me and on best behavior since then!
Sofia58 ( member #30415) posted at 2:54 PM on Monday, December 27th, 2010
D-Day: 12/12/10
BS - 55, female
WS - 57, male
Married 15 years, together 18
"Forgive: sounds good. Forget: I don't think I could. They say, 'Time heals everything' but I'm still waiting."
cass ( member #24261) posted at 4:50 PM on Wednesday, December 29th, 2010
DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.
Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 2:01 AM on Thursday, December 30th, 2010
Up it goes ! 
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
4myheart ( member #21015) posted at 8:37 PM on Thursday, December 30th, 2010
Bump 
so many people need it
"Have you ever been so lost.... Known the way and still so lost." Katy Perry
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 10:52 PM on Saturday, January 1st, 2011
Bump it for New Years fallout. 
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
Sofia58 ( member #30415) posted at 8:23 PM on Monday, January 3rd, 2011
D-Day: 12/12/10
BS - 55, female
WS - 57, male
Married 15 years, together 18
"Forgive: sounds good. Forget: I don't think I could. They say, 'Time heals everything' but I'm still waiting."
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 11:41 PM on Tuesday, January 4th, 2011
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
momma3times ( member #30092) posted at 8:31 PM on Wednesday, January 5th, 2011
Bump it!! Great sound advice!!
Me: BS (37 yrs.)
Him: FWS (39 yrs.) EA via emails and phone calls that lasted 2-3 months.
Married 13 yrs, together for 19 yrs.
2 DDs (ages 9 and 5), 1 DS (3)
DDay 1/13/2010 (while I was 9 months pregnant!). Confronted him on 3/21/11
