Topic is Sleeping.
BluerThanBlue ( member #74855) posted at 7:29 PM on Monday, November 16th, 2020
The hazard of having your BS on SI, reading your posts, and in this case, actively participating in your threads is that you will be less inclined to be honest and may be writing your threads as a means of convincing your BS of your point of view. At the very least, you’re going to be self-conscious about everything.
I highly advise you and your husband to not read each other’s threads. If you want to get the most out of SI, post as if your BS had no idea SI even existed.
Lastly, if you think a polygraph will help your BS, then do it... but make for damn sure you’ve told him everything before your ass sits down in that polygraph chair. If not, you would’ve spent hundreds of dollars just for your BS to resent and mistrust you even more than he did before.
BW, 40s
Divorced WH in 2015; now happily remarried
I edit my comments a lot for spelling, grammar, typos, etc.
Topic is Sleeping.
