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Maia's Withdrawal Survival Guide (repost for newbies)

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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 11:42 PM on Monday, May 14th, 2007

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 6:25 PM on Wednesday, May 23rd, 2007

for Gomer.

and I'm praying for you right now.

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 9:03 PM on Thursday, June 7th, 2007

^bump^

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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polar ( member #14400) posted at 1:34 PM on Saturday, July 14th, 2007

bump-

Greatest post...

BH- 37
XWW- 34- EA/PA
ddays: 3/24/07, 4/2/07, 4/21/07, etc...
Divorced before '08 could have any d-days in it. :)
I never would have left if she would have just come back.

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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 12:23 AM on Thursday, November 22nd, 2007

Happy Thanksgiving!!!!

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

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idealist ( member #9462) posted at 2:45 AM on Thursday, November 22nd, 2007

Happy Thanksgiving to you Maia!!

It is fantastic to "see" you and I hope things are going well in your life.

Everything can be taken from a man or a woman but one thing: the last of human freedoms to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way.

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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 7:21 PM on Friday, December 21st, 2007

shameless bump

Merry Christmas

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 6:55 PM on Saturday, January 26th, 2008

bump

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

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Ibelieveinme ( member #11363) posted at 8:52 PM on Saturday, January 26th, 2008

double post

[This message edited by Ibelieveinme at 2:55 PM, January 26th (Saturday)]

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Ibelieveinme ( member #11363) posted at 8:54 PM on Saturday, January 26th, 2008

I discovered that I was an idolater. I worked hard to make my god my God again.

Great post from someone who made me finally understand the other side.

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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 7:18 PM on Wednesday, March 12th, 2008

bump for newbies.

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

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beach ( member #7533) posted at 3:42 AM on Thursday, March 13th, 2008

If you don't find peace with yourself, you cannot find anywhere else.
Appreciate and cherish what I have.

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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 4:25 PM on Friday, March 14th, 2008

bumping again in response to a pm.

hope you found it now!!!

HUGS

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

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beach ( member #7533) posted at 12:23 AM on Monday, March 17th, 2008

for April

If you don't find peace with yourself, you cannot find anywhere else.
Appreciate and cherish what I have.

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Hope24 ( member #9344) posted at 5:28 PM on Thursday, May 1st, 2008

^bump^

For newbies...

She packed up her potential and all she had learned and headed out to change a few things.

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JoePike ( member #13207) posted at 12:46 AM on Thursday, May 15th, 2008

Bumping for newbies.

"Do or do not. There is no Try" - Yoda.

"The term “mistake” infers a level of ignorance, innocence and naivety. And a lack of intent and planning." - Craig Harper

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lonelynlost ( member #18616) posted at 2:10 AM on Thursday, May 15th, 2008

Maia:

Thanks so much for sharing this wonderful guideline/post.

I wish my WW would read this. It may give her some insights into how to give up OM and do what is good and right my her kids and me.

LonelynLost

Me-BS 56 XWW-53

DD-10/25/2007
Separated 3/8/2008
D Final 8/31/2009

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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 3:55 PM on Wednesday, April 1st, 2009

JP, sorry I didn't answer sooner, life is nutty. bumping by request....

[This message edited by Maia at 9:56 AM, April 1st (Wednesday)]

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

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Tried23 ( member #21076) posted at 7:04 PM on Wednesday, April 1st, 2009

Thank you.....

Me: FWS (me) 48
Husband: BS 44
Married: 14 Years, 2 kids (14 and 13)
D-Day 1: 07/27/08
D-Day 2: 4/15/09 Same OM
D-Day 3: 3/2/2010 All disclosed
Reconciling

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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 7:24 PM on Thursday, April 9th, 2009

bump - I know beach mined this post and quoted me and bumps hers all the time, which is cool!! But there are things she omitted from it that I think are probably worth reading still. take it or leave it.

xoxox peace.

[This message edited by Maia at 1:27 PM, April 9th (Thursday)]

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

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