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Just Found Out :
Another Great Post for Newbies to read

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:28 PM on Saturday, February 18th, 2023

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:11 PM on Friday, June 9th, 2023

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30462   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 1:03 PM on Tuesday, August 29th, 2023

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30462   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:49 PM on Wednesday, November 8th, 2023

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30462   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
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Olderandhappier ( member #75702) posted at 2:54 AM on Thursday, November 9th, 2023

Very helpful. Thank you for such well written advice.

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leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 12:47 AM on Saturday, January 13th, 2024

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BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

posts: 3904   ·   registered: Apr. 21st, 2018   ·   location: Washington State
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Edie ( member #26133) posted at 4:28 PM on Friday, February 9th, 2024

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posts: 6648   ·   registered: Nov. 9th, 2009   ·   location: Europe
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Webbit ( member #84517) posted at 8:34 AM on Friday, February 23rd, 2024

Wow. I really needed to read this today!!!!

Webbit

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leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 6:09 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2024

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BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

posts: 3904   ·   registered: Apr. 21st, 2018   ·   location: Washington State
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leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 3:42 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2024

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BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

posts: 3904   ·   registered: Apr. 21st, 2018   ·   location: Washington State
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Littlepuppet ( member #83426) posted at 7:19 PM on Monday, June 17th, 2024

My vote for the original thread: https://www.survivinginfidelity.com/topics/514479/calling-all-bss/

be the third fixed thread in JFO.

The 10 Commandments.

[This message edited by SI Staff at 10:33 PM, Tuesday, July 2nd]

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leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 10:23 PM on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2024

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BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

posts: 3904   ·   registered: Apr. 21st, 2018   ·   location: Washington State
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betrayed2007 ( new member #85325) posted at 3:44 PM on Tuesday, October 8th, 2024

Thank you, it's alot to think about and really helps to have it summed up in one place.

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Daniella ( new member #85410) posted at 4:09 AM on Friday, November 1st, 2024

Thanks 👍

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Arcticgirl ( new member #85461) posted at 9:27 PM on Sunday, November 17th, 2024

I found this post really helpful.

But also it made me feel the situation is way worse and way more hopeless than I thought.

I feel utter devastation now after reading this.

It seems very very very hopeless.

Please. How does anyone cope?

Seems like anyone would be a fool to try to save their marriage.

Like it’s basically impossible.

Like maybe I needed to see that post. But now what?

Just leave? Destroy my life? Destroy the kid’s lives?

How does anyone survive this?

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