Spelljean ( member #35624) posted at 12:31 AM on Monday, September 17th, 2012
WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated
Spelljean ( member #35624) posted at 9:55 PM on Saturday, September 22nd, 2012
WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 9:35 PM on Saturday, September 29th, 2012
bump 
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 2:12 AM on Monday, October 8th, 2012
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 9:10 PM on Saturday, October 13th, 2012
weekend bump.
lordhasaplan? (original poster member #30079) posted at 4:08 PM on Monday, October 22nd, 2012
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 1:50 AM on Monday, November 12th, 2012
lknup ( member #37433) posted at 2:48 AM on Monday, November 12th, 2012
thanks for bumping. I need to read this stuff even when it is hard!
Me: BS
He: WS
DD fall 2012, Divorced fall 2014, he quickly married OW
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 12:22 AM on Saturday, November 17th, 2012
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
fallingquickly ( member #36599) posted at 12:54 AM on Saturday, November 17th, 2012
Great post. Wish I had read it sooner.
Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)
I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken
There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 4:53 AM on Thursday, November 22nd, 2012
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
lordhasaplan? (original poster member #30079) posted at 2:38 PM on Tuesday, November 27th, 2012
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
lordhasaplan? (original poster member #30079) posted at 4:32 PM on Monday, December 10th, 2012
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 12:02 AM on Wednesday, December 19th, 2012
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 5:23 AM on Saturday, December 22nd, 2012
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
lordhasaplan? (original poster member #30079) posted at 4:34 PM on Monday, December 24th, 2012
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 1:00 AM on Wednesday, January 2nd, 2013
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 2:04 AM on Friday, January 4th, 2013
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
mountainmomma ( member #34388) posted at 6:25 PM on Sunday, January 6th, 2013
Me 37
WS 42 (Mitty)
4 kiddys 9,7,4 &20 mths no5 due August 14
seeing hookers, NSA sites, escorts, anyone willing from 07/08 (i didn't know)left to do full time with no restraints 2010 Returned home march 2011 in R DDay 2.4.2010 OW 30+ age 18-60
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 2:59 AM on Saturday, January 12th, 2013
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
