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Now I'm appreciated?

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 Twicecrushed (original poster member #50258) posted at 1:10 AM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2024

I got this from my xww, aka "the princess" yesterday.

Thank you for all that you do for the girls and all that you make possible for them. I want you to know that you are appreciated everyday. Happy Father's Day!

WTH? As if I wouldn't take care and provide for my DD's. Keep in mind she doesn't contribute to either child's college costs, car, insurance, rent, etc.. She has the funds to contribute, she chooses not to (big D settlement). My DD'S KNOW THIS and they constantly tell me how much they appreciate what I do for them.

I have taken care of and provided for DD'S FOR 22 and 18 years respectively. And for the princess for 22 years, most of which she was a SAHM. I did and continue to take pride in taking care of my family!

It's only now that she blew up the M and assclown married his other wifetress that she appreciates me.

Since my DD's were born, I have been a hands on dad. Taking them by myself on trips so the princess could get some rest (I travelfor work, so I get my sleep during the week and especially on the weekends wanted to give her a break). I changed diapers, fed, read books, sang songs, danced in the kitchen, played with them, did homework, bathed them, and taught them to cook. But now that I have been paying the big bills, now I am finally appreciated? shocked

No real question here, more of a vent. I'm glad she sent it late so it didn't put me in a bad mood while I was spending the day with DD2. Has anyone else gotten stupid statements from their XS?

Me-BH 50
The Princess-WW 47
Married 23 years
2 DDs 14 and 11
1st DDday June 1998 - 2.5 year PA
2nd DDay April 2015 - 3 month PA
False R for 13 months the A never ended, just deep underground.
Divorced 8-31-2017

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hardyfool ( member #83133) posted at 1:49 AM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2024

Yep, the X surfaced as well.

More of the same nonsense, card was all about thanking me for being father of our children and well to paraphrase saving them from her chaos plus showing them what character really is about (no idea where that one came from).

Do you know they make father's days cards that are almost little booklets? I now unfortunately know this...

I guess we are supposed to find some divine humor/irony/oh hell I don't know what to call it in their epiphanies.

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EvenKeel ( member #24210) posted at 12:54 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2024

As if I wouldn't take care and provide for my DD's.

Many parents do not. I would take her Father's Day message as that.

Yes - she knows that you will always take care of them but looking around the world, many do not....and she appreciates that. As she should, sounds like she is doing as she wishes financially while you are bearing the load.

There are many folks who are holding it all down and never get one ounce of recognition from the other parent. I would just appreciate that she is even recognizing it and let it go.

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