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Howcthappen (original poster member #80775) posted at 9:09 AM on Monday, December 11th, 2023
Can anyone tell me what this means?
I don’t know why but I email the AP’s email address and it pulled up some weird site.
First of all it says untitled and then it’s a bunch of letters and symbols but it looks like a something. So I click the link and the gibberish disappears but then one turned into a website that says meetsanddates and the other one says romanticdates like it’s a website but it just goes blank and doesn’t pull anything up.
I’ve googled my own and it doesn’t pull that up and I did a few others but nothing,
Why do you think it is? Was she an escort who also worked at my husbands office building? This is weird.
Three years since DdayNever gonna be the sameReconcilingThe sting is still present
HellFire ( member #59305) posted at 1:29 PM on Monday, December 11th, 2023
Do you mean,on the Google search page, it offered the untitled/letters and symbols as a possible match?
I ran into something like that, a lot, when searching the phone numbers on my husband's bill.
It is a legite escort service. I did a ton of investigating, and what I learned is, Google will offer escort services as a possible match,because the number is one that is similar on that escort service. Maybe it's the same for email addresses.
For example..
Say the number was 555-5555..and there is a 555-5550 number advertised for one of their escorts.
So I would say she wasn't an escort,and this is a google thing. Or,maybe she's fallen on hard times,and become an escort.
But you are what you did
And I'll forget you, but I'll never forgive
The smallest man who ever lived..
Howcthappen (original poster member #80775) posted at 4:48 AM on Tuesday, December 12th, 2023
But I see her email in the Google doc. 🤔
It only comes up with her email and it comes up consistently. I’ve googled 10 other emails and nothing like those websites come up.
Three years since DdayNever gonna be the sameReconcilingThe sting is still present
Bigger ( Attaché #8354) posted at 1:54 PM on Tuesday, December 12th, 2023
I’m a technically semi-savvy guy who has been in IT for several decades. Maybe if I shared that in my attic I still have an original Apple Macintosh that doesn’t even say that it only has 128k and a 400k floppy that might give you a clue as to how long…
I think you are trying to read tomorrows lottery-ticket in the innards of a rabbit.
Could be a couple of logical-sounding reasons.
Like maybe OW has listed her email on some dinky sites and these sites hacked.
Or… maybe the search algorithm has somehow combined that you are looking at dating sites in your information quest for OW and/or relationship sites (searching for infidelity probably scores higher as an indicator for some cuckold-kink that what we are dealing with) and therefore lists some dubious sites.
But… I think you won’t get anything to work on or any reliable or usable data doing this. Not anymore than the innards of the rabbit will guarantee you the winning ticket tomorrow.
"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus
HellFire ( member #59305) posted at 2:38 PM on Tuesday, December 12th, 2023
Did you confirm,through sources other than your husband, that she was a coworker?
But you are what you did
And I'll forget you, but I'll never forgive
The smallest man who ever lived..
Howcthappen (original poster member #80775) posted at 3:04 AM on Wednesday, December 13th, 2023
Hellfire-
I saw that she worked for a company that was in his company’s building.
Three years since DdayNever gonna be the sameReconcilingThe sting is still present
Whenyouknowyouknow ( new member #84261) posted at 5:15 AM on Wednesday, December 13th, 2023
Did you try searching for the email on a site such as Truthfinder? I used quite a bit when I was first researching the 40 escorts my husband contacted over about a six-month period of time. I also researched some email addresses there. I liked that site in comparison to some of the other ones and it seemed pretty reliable. Yep, some of these people that he contacted and advertised on listcrawler are people with normal jobs too. I found one that worked in the juvenile court system. Perfect!!
ThisIsSoLonely ( Guide #64418) posted at 4:34 PM on Wednesday, December 13th, 2023
I'm with Bigger on this. Really - give up on the email and google. There are plenty of other ways to find out what you want (which is what?)
You are the only person you are guaranteed to spend the rest of your life with. Act accordingly.
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Howcthappen (original poster member #80775) posted at 1:30 AM on Tuesday, December 19th, 2023
I want to find out everything thing there is to know. I might send a grenade her way like the one she sent into my life.
Three years since DdayNever gonna be the sameReconcilingThe sting is still present
Howcthappen (original poster member #80775) posted at 1:35 AM on Tuesday, December 19th, 2023
Three years since DdayNever gonna be the sameReconcilingThe sting is still present
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:01 PM on Tuesday, December 19th, 2023
If it's in a google doc, I'd be shocked if you could read it unless you're signed into google as someone authorized to read or manage the doc.
Of course, if it's in a google doc, I'm shocked that it was returned at all as a search result.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
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Topic is Sleeping.