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So now it’s my pet that needs your mojo and prayers

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 BearlyBreathing (original poster member #55075) posted at 12:26 PM on Sunday, November 19th, 2023

My sweet, fluffy boy is not eating. The vets run all the bloodwork tests, and the results didn’t indicate anything wrong. But this is a cat who eats too much and he’s now lost almost 2 pounds in just a week. He’s being sweeter than ever and still seems chipper and cheerful, but something very very wrong and of course over the weekend — you get nothing from the veterinary office.

I’ve only had him since 2020 and I’ve lost my last cat after just three years as well. I’m getting very tired I’m not having my pets live very long.(he was from the pound, so we’re not quite sure how old he is but the vets said he could be anywhere between eight and 12 years old right now)

Please send Mojo or prayers or positive thoughts or whatever you got. My heart is breaking.

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

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zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 1:03 PM on Sunday, November 19th, 2023

Sending it all to you and your sweet, fluffy boy.

Is the vet going to recheck him? Are there other tests they can do? Hopefully they will find something easily treatable. Please keep us posted.

"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."

D-day April 2010

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DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 1:57 PM on Sunday, November 19th, 2023

Sending mojo for a answer and quick recovery.

Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 2:36 PM on Sunday, November 19th, 2023

Have they checked his teeth?
Usually when a cat that is older stops eating there is a dental issue in my experience.
You can test to be sure he is hydrated by pinching the skin on the scruff of his neck if it stays tented up for several seconds that is an indicator that he is dehydrated. If it goes back down immediately he is plenty hydrated.

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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Sally24 ( new member #70794) posted at 1:35 PM on Tuesday, November 21st, 2023

How is kitty doing? Any answers from the vet, yet?

Never let your fear decide your fate

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 BearlyBreathing (original poster member #55075) posted at 3:32 PM on Tuesday, November 21st, 2023

My cat got worse over the weekend, but I got him into the vet first thing Monday morning. All the bloodwork showed nothing wrong and the physical exam didn’t provide any clues. It just happened that the ultrasound stenographer was going to be in my vets office that day and my vet suggested we do an ultrasound instead of x-rays to see if something was going on internally. When they were shaving his belly for the ultrasound, they discovered a huge bruise across his abdomen that he was not indicating was tender, but it was very purple. And then the ultrasound showed inflamed left kidney. So the theory is there were some kind of blunt force Trauma where he fell, or ran into some thing, and will probably never know exactly what happened. They think it will resolve itself and he’s currently on an appetite stimulant to get him back to normal.

So hopefully this damage isn’t permanent and the shame he’s feeling about walking around with half his sperm missing will also fade with time.

I won’t lie – this really tested my resilience.

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

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zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 4:23 PM on Tuesday, November 21st, 2023

I'm so glad to hear you have an answer!! It's just awful when they're sick or hurting and you don't know what's causing it. Hopefully he is on the mend!!!

"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."

D-day April 2010

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WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 2:21 PM on Thursday, November 23rd, 2023

GREAT NEWS!

Seems like lately on this site we are losing our precious, best friends way too often. I’m so very happy for you that your situation looks like it’s going to turn out with a much happier ending.

"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt

I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy

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Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 11:57 PM on Thursday, November 23rd, 2023

Prayers for your fur baby!

"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!

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WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 6:25 AM on Monday, December 4th, 2023

BarelyBreathing…

How is your kitty coming along?

I hope the vets were right about the bruise taking care of itself.

"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt

I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy

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 BearlyBreathing (original poster member #55075) posted at 3:10 PM on Monday, December 4th, 2023

Thanks for asking, WR. He’s a little bit better but still not eating enough and still losing weight so we are going back to the doctors tomorrow.

It’s difficult because this is the cat that would eat everything and then clean the floor looking for more food. And now I have to bribe him to eat basically.

I have a trip planned next week so I’m pretty anxious. It’s hard to find a cat sitter if he has to be on medication and I don’t know how I’d be away from him . but the trip is paid for and cost thousands of dollars and three other people are counting on me, so I don’t know what I’m going to do.

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

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zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 3:26 PM on Monday, December 4th, 2023

Thinking of you and your sweet, fluffy boy. Sending healing thoughts for tomorrow.

"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."

D-day April 2010

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Jeaniegirl ( member #6370) posted at 8:20 PM on Tuesday, December 5th, 2023

Sending positive mo-jo to your Fluffy boy!

"Because I deserve better"

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SacredSoul33 ( member #83038) posted at 10:40 PM on Tuesday, December 5th, 2023

I have a trip planned next week so I’m pretty anxious. It’s hard to find a cat sitter if he has to be on medication and I don’t know how I’d be away from him . but the trip is paid for and cost thousands of dollars and three other people are counting on me, so I don’t know what I’m going to do.

Does your vet offer boarding? If so, even if it's more expensive, the peace of mind knowing that he's in good hands could be worth it.

Remove the "I want you to like me" sticker from your forehead and place it on the mirror, where it belongs. ~ Susan Jeffers

Your nervous system will always choose a familiar hell over an unfamiliar heaven.

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zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 2:33 AM on Thursday, December 7th, 2023

How is your cat doing?

"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."

D-day April 2010

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 BearlyBreathing (original poster member #55075) posted at 3:30 AM on Thursday, December 7th, 2023

They did a X-ray which confirmed the inflamed kidney but ruled out cancers and things like that. So they put him on two appetite stimulants and wait two more weeks. The two appetite stimulants are working… but now he has poopy fluffy pantaloons. So a cat bath was in order along with a butt fluff trim. Good thing he is cute and sweet…But he does perk up when he eats.

One of the meds is super easy - just an ointment on the inside of his ear. The other gets squirted in his mouth. If he’s doing okay later this week with no more poopy butt issues I’ll confirm my trip. The cat sitter can give him the ointment and I think it will be okay so skip the other for two days. Fingers crossed….

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

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zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 12:41 PM on Thursday, December 7th, 2023

Paws crossed for continued healing!! I hope his poopy, fluffy pantaloons issue is under control.

Fingers crossed for your trip!!

"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."

D-day April 2010

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