Topic is Sleeping.
LilBlackCat (original poster member #57470) posted at 8:57 AM on Wednesday, February 2nd, 2022
Well, it's been 7 years since d-day...
With so many ups and downs.. I can say for certain that the storm has long past.
While I'm still single, I have been pretty happy overall..
I still hold out hope, of meeting a new life partner..
But in the meantime, stocks and investments have been my new focus. (Uncle Sam is gonna love me this year, come tax time 馃槄)
Anyways, just wanted to stop by and shed some light on where things have gone since my flopping on the floor (emotionally).. Like a dying fish. 馃樀
But time really does heal things.. Just got to hang in there and keep moving forward.馃檪
Me: BS 43 (Now 50)
Her: WW 37
18 M, 19 Together
4 Children, youngest is now 9.
Divorce Final as of 9/3/19.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 2:24 PM on Wednesday, February 2nd, 2022
Hey LBC- glad you are healing and have built a great new life! Thanks for letting us know how you are doing!
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
Superesse ( member #60731) posted at 4:37 PM on Wednesday, February 2nd, 2022
Hi LBCat, good update, long time no hear from....I still remember your posting about that old beat up car you had to take dates on! Gosh time flies and you have used it to do well financially. Makes me regret staying stuck in my limbo...
I'm sure the future will include a lovely partner for you, rock on in the meantime!
Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 8:45 PM on Wednesday, February 2nd, 2022
It is GOOD to "see" you again LilBlackCat 
!!! It is GOOD to know you are moving forward!!! Thanks for sharing your update 
!
A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)
I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!
From respect comes great love...sassylee
Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 9:13 PM on Wednesday, February 2nd, 2022
Way to go LBC!
Yesssssss
$$$$$ success
Thanks for the update. Gives us all hope.
Hope you get yourself a great replacement car if you want one.
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
LilBlackCat (original poster member #57470) posted at 9:00 AM on Friday, February 4th, 2022
Thanks everyone, I bought a brand new car in late 2018.. So it's been a good while since the old hooptie days. Lol!
Me: BS 43 (Now 50)
Her: WW 37
18 M, 19 Together
4 Children, youngest is now 9.
Divorce Final as of 9/3/19.
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 6:24 AM on Saturday, February 5th, 2022
Nice update, LBC! Glad things have been going well for you!
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 5:42 PM on Saturday, February 5th, 2022
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I鈥檓 free and loving life.
dotterofTheKing ( member #45223) posted at 8:24 AM on Monday, February 7th, 2022
Wonderful to read your update, LBC!
I was BW (48), He was WH (47) at D-day
Together 27 years, married for 24
D-day was August 4, 2014
We have 3 beautiful children. (Two sons 19 and 20, one daughter 14.)
Affair with HS sweetheart.
Divorced January 26, 2016
GraceLove ( member #59212) posted at 2:52 AM on Friday, February 11th, 2022
Hi LilBlackCat! I so remember you...I got here in 2017 and really appreciated all of your comments. Great to 'see' you again:)
Topic is Sleeping.
