SurvivingInfidelity.com^®

I absolutely LOVE this site!

It gives me so much to be thankful for-- minds that think like mine; minds that do not think like mine (and cause me to think beyond my own thoughts); a space for waywards that is semi-protected (in as much as a stop sign is used or not used); the potential for growth in myself (my core obsession at this point in my journey).

I could go on and on...

For me personally, it is rewarding to know that I have matured to a point where I can think beyond "group-think." That I have matured beyond thinking that there is only one absolute or "right" way to view a circumstance or to determine an outcome.

My skies are multi-faceted, and the colors in my sky are unlimited.

I feel free. It is so invogorating!

I definitely have a love hate relationship with SI.

I too feel that there isn’t one size fits all path out of infidelity or any other situation for that matter. Prior to my arrival, I was a very black and white thinking type of guy. Now I can see the gray areas and actually consider that there are alternatives other than my own.

It’s been extraordinarily painful for me the last 4 years. I’ve had to face my demons and acknowledge that I’m not the person I told myself I was. I was the guy who would lie and cheat. I always used to look down my nose at cheaters. Now I am one,

I am also very thankful for the few very special friends that I’ve made. People who have shown me incredible kindness despite being a WS. I’m forever grateful for their wisdom, kindness and guidance these past 4 years.

Love-hate relationship: I get that. Maybe I'm not supposed to love it so soon?

Glad to read you find SI supportive. Thank you!

I honestly credit this site for changing my life, and saving myself from myself. When I landed here almost 5 years ago, I did not expect the outcome that came to be.

I didn't know what I was getting myself into, and while for the most part it has been an incredibly painful experience it has also been very rewarding.

I am the best version of me and it simply wouldn't have happened without SI. This place has my undying gratitude.

I also love the variety of perspectives. It helps you see things that maybe you were blind to before, or something is said in a way that just clicks in your head, and you get that ah ha moment. And I appreciate that.

I also love the variety of perspectives. It helps you see things that maybe you were blind to before

Exactly! Thank you for weighing in.

I'm very grateful for this site. I'm reading daily. Now I need to utilize it for it's full potential. Thank you for all the wise words that have been shared here.