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Willing to send "Not Just Friends" to SI member

Topic is Sleeping.
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 latebloomer45 (original poster member #18021) posted at 7:03 PM on Monday, December 19th, 2016

Hi, came across this book today, it was incredibly helpful, but I don't feel that I need it anymore. Am willing to send it to anyone in the Continental US who is willing to give me an address. PM me.

Me: BS 56
Him: FWS 58
Married 32 years
Son-26 Daughter (Who Came out as trans, so now Son)-23,
D-Day #1 12/11/2007
D-Day #2 5/23/2008 fucking trickle truth!
Whatever Threnody said, I concur.

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SweetheartVixen ( member #4956) posted at 5:11 AM on Wednesday, December 21st, 2016

I would love to hav this book. Infidelity has struck my family in th eworst possible way,, with in family, And not one but 4 out of five of my kids.

I had this book and my WS discarded it and it was my favorite book to refer to. I would love to have and allow them to read it, especially the one whose own sibling was involved...Its been a horrible year for my family. I can PM u the address

BS/60s WS/60s Divorcing and not soon enough~!
Its nice to be important, but its more important to be nice...

DD 6-14

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 latebloomer45 (original poster member #18021) posted at 3:25 PM on Wednesday, December 21st, 2016

Wow...he discarded it...not a good sign! PM me an address and I will send it. Leaving town for a week on Friday early morning so I'd love to run it to the post office before then.

If you are uncomfortable giving me your home address, send a work or friend address. I understand completely.

LB

Me: BS 56
Him: FWS 58
Married 32 years
Son-26 Daughter (Who Came out as trans, so now Son)-23,
D-Day #1 12/11/2007
D-Day #2 5/23/2008 fucking trickle truth!
Whatever Threnody said, I concur.

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 latebloomer45 (original poster member #18021) posted at 10:59 PM on Thursday, December 22nd, 2016

Hey, I'm heading out for 8 days, if you give me an address I will mail it when I return.

Merry Christmas!

Me: BS 56
Him: FWS 58
Married 32 years
Son-26 Daughter (Who Came out as trans, so now Son)-23,
D-Day #1 12/11/2007
D-Day #2 5/23/2008 fucking trickle truth!
Whatever Threnody said, I concur.

posts: 4697   ·   registered: Feb. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Midwest
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dotterofTheKing ( member #45223) posted at 3:58 PM on Tuesday, September 5th, 2017

Did you end up sending out the book or do you still have it? :)

I was BW (48), He was WH (47) at D-day
Together 27 years, married for 24
D-day was August 4, 2014
We have 3 beautiful children. (Two sons 19 and 20, one daughter 14.)
Affair with HS sweetheart.
Divorced January 26, 2016

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 latebloomer45 (original poster member #18021) posted at 9:28 PM on Tuesday, September 5th, 2017

I still have it but I live in Germany now! Will be home at Christmas and could send it then. Sorry!

Me: BS 56
Him: FWS 58
Married 32 years
Son-26 Daughter (Who Came out as trans, so now Son)-23,
D-Day #1 12/11/2007
D-Day #2 5/23/2008 fucking trickle truth!
Whatever Threnody said, I concur.

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dotterofTheKing ( member #45223) posted at 5:41 AM on Wednesday, September 6th, 2017

Ok, sounds like a plan! I'll PM you my info

I was BW (48), He was WH (47) at D-day
Together 27 years, married for 24
D-day was August 4, 2014
We have 3 beautiful children. (Two sons 19 and 20, one daughter 14.)
Affair with HS sweetheart.
Divorced January 26, 2016

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Maisindu ( member #59249) posted at 12:26 AM on Thursday, September 7th, 2017

I have a pdf copy of this book. Anyone wants it, my email is maisindu@yahoo.com

Me- BW- 43 Him-WH-52 23yr marriage 2003 EA, 2008 2 EA, 2016-2017 EA/PA

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Notthevictem ( member #44389) posted at 2:34 AM on Thursday, September 7th, 2017

For those of us in the US, accepting the PDF is a copyright violation, and could be a pain in the rear if you get caught with it.

The paperback book itself it pretty cheap, and just about every used book store / library I can think of has one.

It's definitely worth reading BUT be aware that not everything it advises is in line with the general advise you get here... but like the stuff you get here, take what you can use and leave the rest.

Just my opinion.

[This message edited by Notthevictem at 9:19 PM, September 6th (Wednesday)]

BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer

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BrokenRoad ( member #15334) posted at 5:59 AM on Thursday, September 7th, 2017

This is a good book, I recommend it.

BR

{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

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