Topic is Sleeping.
devotedman (original poster member #45441) posted at 7:22 PM on Sunday, January 25th, 2015
Just started this and it seems _fascinating_.
The feelings of being "in love" versus "loving", the 'need' for some sort of obstacle (like a marriage, anyone?) for the limerical feelings to develop, the unbalanced nature of limerant/non-limerant relationship participants, all just screams (to me at least) of what we call the "fog", the ILYBINILWY statement, etc.
Wow. Just, wow. Gotta get back. A real page-turner! 
Me: 2xBS b 1962 xWW after 2 decades, xWGF after almost 1.
Amelia Pond: Who are you?
The Doctor: I don't know yet. I'm still cooking.
ENFP-A. Huh.
silentscream13 ( member #41693) posted at 8:46 PM on Tuesday, January 27th, 2015
I seriously just one-clicked this on Amazon before moseying over here to find some more book recommendations!
Here's hoping I find it a page turner as well!
ME: BS HIM: WS - lostmymind13; Sexting,OEA/NO PA (planning it b/f he got caught) w/ EX-GF; extreme porn use our entire relationship; Alcoholic (sober). D-day - 11-14-13 Together (on DDay):17 yrs (now):27-yrs; 4 Kids; Status: Reconciled...mostly
Darkness Falls ( member #27879) posted at 7:05 PM on Wednesday, January 28th, 2015
I downloaded this to my Kindle...thanks for the recommendation...I hope I'll get a lot out of it.
Married -> I cheated -> We divorced -> We remarried -> Had two kids -> Now we’re miserable again
Staying together for the kids
D-day 2010
devotedman (original poster member #45441) posted at 10:42 PM on Wednesday, January 28th, 2015
it is a good book so far.
as we go through the definition of and requirements for limerence to grow it feels sort of "dense" with information or terminology or just style.
anybody else notice this? or have a different take on what i am noticing?
Me: 2xBS b 1962 xWW after 2 decades, xWGF after almost 1.
Amelia Pond: Who are you?
The Doctor: I don't know yet. I'm still cooking.
ENFP-A. Huh.
ResoluteH ( new member #39673) posted at 4:52 AM on Monday, March 2nd, 2015
Helpful for me; not so sure it rang true with my BW.
Topic is Sleeping.
